just remember, its not your fault. its not anyones fault. what I figured out now just works like this:
woman or male(P): I was raped
counselor (U): its ok, its not your fault. if god allowed this to happen what does it. mean?
P: im a bad person? (tears)
U: no you’re not
basically, just ignore the past and continue, you may bottle it up but at least you’re not dead
unidef